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3 Tips to Help Your Baby Sleep Through The Night

When my partner and I decided to have children, we never knew how much our lives would revolve around sleep. Sure, we realized that having kids meant there would be sleep deprivation for us, however we never understood the extent of how sleep would really take over.

During the early stages, we spent hours – yes, hours – rocking, patting, lullabying, shushing, swaddling, and bouncing our firstborn to sleep. When we weren’t trying to put him down, we would be meticulously planning our day around his nap schedule. It consumed us and it was exhausting on top of all the other parenthood challenges like feedings, maintaining the household, and getting some shut-eye ourselves.

We knew this couldn’t go on, we needed a solution to help make our lives easier so we could get more rest ourselves. So when our friends told us about sleep training, we were intrigued to learn how we could teach our child to self-soothe, fall asleep on his own, and stay asleep the entire night. It would not only help with his growth and development, but would also s benefit our mental health and energy levels as well.

What worked for us?

We started off by researching all the possible sleep training methods. While we never strictly followed any specific one, we did find there were three things that were the special recipe for successfully preparing our kids to sleep through the night.

  1. Bedtime routine

Every evening we would go through a consistent bedtime routine to wind them down and get them familiar with the idea that they were getting ready for bed. This would start with a bath, warm milk, bedtime story, and lullaby. We learned from the Ferber method that this consistency helps your baby learn what to expect each night, and it helps set your baby’s internal clock.

2. Comfort object

Since our baby was used to having us rocking them for hours, we decided to introduce a comfort object or lovey.  This is an object that your baby forms an attachment to. It can be a blanket, stuffed animal, or another small object that helps your little one transition through life changes. This cherished item gives your child something to associate with sleep without relying on you to do the work. While a lovey doesn’t work for all babies, our kids latched on to their loveys very quickly. It also helped them with big transitions like going to daycare or on a family trip.

3. White noise machine

White noise machines can help babies with getting a better quality night’s sleep by masking environmental or outside noises that are causing disturbed sleep. They not only can help you get to sleep but also stay asleep, and may even help to train your brain to know when it’s time to snooze. As we live near a busy road that sometimes brings in sounds of emergency vehicles, we decided to use a sound machine. Our kids still love using their sound machine and can even now turn it on themselves. We also got a smaller travel version for when we go on trips so we can sleep well when we’re away from home too.

While these tips don’t solve sleep challenges for all children, they provide a solid foundation to prepare little ones for bed. It also made it a lot easier for us when we did start a more regimented sleep training program. We’ve used it on both of our kids and have had good sleepers now for almost four years! To say we are overjoyed to have some time back to ourselves is a huge understatement.

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5 Tips for Writing Better Stories on Social Media

One of the biggest challenges in digital marketing today is swimming through the sea of information and getting your content to shine, especially when it comes to the endless plethora of posts on a social media newsfeed.

With shorter attention spans and a greater tendency for people to skim, digital marketers need to find ways to get their message out quickly, concisely, and in the most engaging way. With only seconds to convince the audience of your content, pitching your company or messaging in the digital marketing sphere seems even harder than pitching a product on Shark Tank.

While it can be challenging, it is not impossible and Eric Goldschein gave some great points in The Non-Writers’ Guide To Writing Better Social Media Copy on how it can be done. Below are five of his tips that I feel are the most impactful:

  1. Write the way you talk
    A social media post is an informal means of expression. It should be accessible to anyone who wants to learn more about you or your business. Stay away from industry jargon and dense paragraphs and try to have fun with it.
  2. Write first, then edit heavily
    Get all the important information you need to say down on “paper.”
    Once you have a draft, go back and edit, revise, and rewrite entire sections until you’re satisfied.
  3. Write to your target audience
    Think about who you are trying to reach.? Gen Z or Gen X?
    Your content has to speak to the demographic you’re trying to capture.
  4. Add visual elements to your posts
    Keep readers engaged with visuals. Add photos – as well as graphs, charts, videos, GIFs, and other visual media – to the body of your posts.
  5. Conduct hashtag and keyword research
    Keyword and/or hashtag research to come up with topics to write about, it can also help to make your updates more competitive in the sea of ever-growing content on the web.
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Baby Emery

Welcome true life story of how my son was born. It was a strange day for my husband and I and not how we expected to be delivering a baby. I worked on applying the 8-point story arc to best deliver the highlights of the day in short snippets. To get there, I wrote out the entire story, then broke it up into shorter pieces, which I further edited it to fit into shorter, tweet worthy snippets. I hope you enjoy the story of baby Emery.

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Love You Forever

I will never forget the first time I read, Love You Forever, a 1986 children’s book written by Robert Munsch and illustrated by Sheila McGraw. While the book has been in circulation for over 30 years, I encountered it for the first time just a few years ago when I became a new mom. I still remember the feeling of disbelief as the book I thought would be a light read with cute pictures had unexpectedly moved me to tears.  

The story is centered around a mother who sings a lullaby to her sleeping son during various stages of his life. As you watch the son grow, you see the mother go through the many challenges of raising a child, but despite all the struggles she comes back to her son at night to express her unconditional love, even as she becomes weak and approaches her final days. 

What I loved about the book 

The book stood out to me in many ways and while it is considered a children’s book, I would argue it is more so a book that provides many lessons for parents or caregivers. It triggered an emotional connection for me as a mother as I identified with the hardships of the mother in the story, especially the moments when she wanted to sell her son to the zoo! However, at the same time it depicts how a mother’s love is resilient and while you test her in many ways, she somehow continues to love you through and through. 

Reading this story also allowed me to reflect upon my own relationship with my mother and the many ways I pushed her patience while growing up. The story moves you to appreciate loved ones in your life a little more and truly value the time you have with them as we go through the circle of life. 

Why it is good at storytelling 

This book is particularly good at story telling because it covers all the four I’s that are needed to create an engaging story as indicated by Ashley Fell in “Why storytelling is so powerful in the digital era”. The story captured my interest and maintained my attention throughout the book as we moved through each stage of the boy’s life.  It instructs us by providing me with meaningful reflections on my own relationships with my son and my mother. It involved me as I could identify with the character in the story and saw myself in the mother.  Finally, it inspired me by encouraging me to cherish time with loved ones and recognize that there will always be hardships throughout life but no matter what you do, you have people that will always be there. 

Many feel that Love You Forever is a divisive book. Some like me think it is a beautiful story of motherhood and the circle of life, while others hate it and incite ridicule that it is okay for an old woman to sneak into her adult son’s room and pick him up. Whatever the case, for a children’s book, it is an engaging story that brings out emotions and leaves you deep in thought. and would make the perfect gift for an expecting parent. 

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