
I turned 35 last year – and I may or may not still have a teddy bear or two proudly displayed in my bedroom. There’s something about the stuffed creatures that brings out nostalgia and a sense of serene comfort. I remember reading an article in April of 2020, during the first Covid-19 lockdown in Ontario, Canada, that discussed the usage of weighted teddy bears during the Coronavirus to help ease anxiety, grief and loneliness. As I wallowed in the new strange world of not being able to see my friends, I wondered if things would be back to “normal” in time for my 35th August birthday so I could celebrate with my loved ones (little did I know that the virus would still be wreaking havoc as I approach my 36th birthday. Sigh).
Thinking about the article, I joked to my friend via text: “If we’re still in lockdown in August, I’m having a teddy bear party and naming all the bears after all of my friends so it’ll be like you’re all basically there.” When the lockdown ended at the end of June and small backyard gatherings were allowed, I decided to make good on my joke. While I did invite a couple of close friends to celebrate the day, teddy bears ran the show as I used Jimmy Kennedy’s famous book, The Teddy Bears’ Picnic and a curated collection of famous teddies from literature and pop culture to base my party theme on. Read on for all of the party deets!
Décor

To set the mood, I designated a corner of the backyard to two of my favourite teddy bears and their toy picnic basket. They dined on burgers and veggies, sipped some tea and were later joined by more fuzzy friends – I had asked each guest to bring along their cherished teddy bear. The rest of the backyard was decorated with paper lanters, streamers and flowers in shades of red and yellow. Red is a traditional picnic colour (hello, checkered table cloth) and yellow is my happy colour. Patterns of bees were also featured throughout because bees = honey = bears.
Party Favours

Because of Covid-19 concerns, I wanted to make sure my guests (and their varying degrees of pandemic anxiety) felt comfortable attending. I created picnic baskets for each person with the “bare (bear) necessities,” a play on famous bear Baloo’s song from Disney’s The Jungle Book. Each bag contained a mason jar for drinking with a name tag, mini plastic tongs so everyone had their own serving tool for the food table, and an on-theme face mask in a bee print (made by a local seamstress who had just started a very successful face mask business). And candy. Obviously there was candy.
Food and Beverages
The main course consisted of typical BBQ items but the snacks were a little jazzed up with quotes from popular fictional teddy bear stories.

I had chocolate covered pretzel sticks (colored in a bee pattern) and Tim Horton’s Honey Dip Timbits to represent Winnie-the-Pooh’s love of honey.

The story of Goldilocks and the Three Bears (and Goldilocks’ attempts at trying all of the porridge) was used for the Doritos chips selection – Cool Ranch (TOO COLD), Flamin’ Hot (TOO HOT), and Original flavour (JUST RIGHT). Paddington the Bear’s love, marmalade, was featured on a cheese plate.

I had also created boxes of trail mix with all things teddy and honey related, including Teddy Grahams, honeycomb-shaped chocolate, honey-flavoured nuts, Honeycomb cereal, and Bear Paws’ little bites.

The cooler of beer I set up for ease of drinking was an ode to Ted (the bear from the very popular movie of the same name) and his love of “Teddy Brewskis.”
Cake

I couldn’t have a teddy bear party without including the Berenstain Bears – I had most of their books as a child. One of my best friends is a pastry chef so I was lucky enough to have her make me my own individual teddy bear cake and delicious bee cupcakes for the guests (which made it easier to abide by Covid safety guidelines). I definitely had leftover cake for breakfast the next day!
Birthday Cocktail

Because I’m a bartender and the pandemic lockdowns have allowed me to have a lot of fun experimenting with cocktails, I knew the party needed a themed drink. I had been in a frozen cocktail phase (and still am!) so I ended up making a “Mango Peach BEARlini”, which was a huge hit. Check out my Instagram reel for a DIY video on how to make this frozen Mango Peach Bellini. Just be careful – they’re highly addictive and too easy to drink.
A Joyful Day
After worrying I would have to spend my birthday alone, I was extremely happy with how I got to celebrate my birthday. Got any tips for celebrating special occasions during the pandemic? Let me know in the comments! While the teddy bear theme was fun and allowed my creative juices to flow, I was most grateful that I got to spend time with my family and friends and didn’t have to resort to naming bears after them!






